Dating a man 13 years older
Celebrate your union and enjoy each moment you spend together.
A word of caution though, if you think and anticipate failure, you will surely achieve it!
I felt there was no future then but after 4 months he came back with the confidence he was missing to work it out.
I told my family, but they’re not fond of the age difference (my older brothers think it’s “disgusting”).
Q: If I’m dating a man who is 39 when I’m 21 what will it be like when I’m 42 and he’s 60? We have a lot in common and we get along really well.
We did break up after 6 months because he felt bad about the age difference and was hesitant to meet my family.
I share this with you because I encourage you to ask yourself if some of his appeal lies in the simple fact that he is older.If I follow what feels right, am I setting myself up for future failure? Usually, we don't question the things we know in our gut to in our best interests.You are concerned that a 15 year age difference may be a "terrible idea" or "setting yourself up for future failure." Are these irrational concerns, or is this your intuition trying to out-talk your infatuation?Age is just a number, but love, connection, values, compatibility and chemistry are real.And by the way, they are real hard to find in one person, so thank your lucky stars that you have found your soul mate.